God
The Twilight Zone.
if he is real where the hell is he now... 
Where he's always been
not giving a damn... like people say... he don't intervene cause he gave us the choice to choose to love him... rather than making us love him... but that seems so frigging selfish to me...

Those who only think of God during times of strife, are selfish, not the other way around.
mhm... but my question is... there is strife all the the time... but he chooses never to intervene... because he wants to give humans free choice... so as to choose to love him... is this the reason he don't stop a tv falling ontop of a 9 month old baby... when an earth quake happens... or is there more to it than that...

Why would he is the better question? The person will die anyway, we'll all die. Death is sad to us, but not for God
hmmmm true Mr Meal... but... what about cases where there is no death... say a young child is abused in their home... leaving them traumatised for life... why the absence of intervention then?

Again for what? So we can live in a perfect world? It's not meant to be perfect. If God intervenes for every incident like that, well we'd all be believers then wouldn't we be. I think you've got the concept backwards anyway, God does give fair judgement for such abusers in the long run of course this is all my opinion ;] people have their own interpretations.
But my best advice when thinking with this mentality is.. just because it makes you upset or because you think it's wrong doesn't mean it's an "responsibility" for a god to intervene, and in no religion does it state this will happen.
hmmmm interesting... thank you Mr Meal... more to ponder...


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